Some Questions You Need Answers For When Attending A Modern Day Funeral

 

Rules of society change with changing times, and it is true for the funeral as well. Many rules that were set in stone a hundred years ago, (like the widow wearing black for a full year after the death of her husband) is now considered obsolete. So, what are the modern funeral etiquette? To help you out, here are some answers to important questions you need to know before you visit a funeral home Kendall.

 


Should I attend the funeral?

 

Nobody sends an invitation to attend a funeral; so, it is your relationship with the deceased person that will determine whether you should go or not. If you had a very good relationship with the deceased person or with the family members of the person, it is acceptable that you attend the funeral. The only reason to not go is when you know that your presence will create an unpleasant situation for the family then don’t go.

 

Do I have to wear black?

 

There was a time when black was mandatory for attending a funeral; but not so much today. But the color chosen should be neutral or dark; never bright. Also, avoid wearing patterns that are considered “fun” as that will not go well with others. But if the funeral has a theme (as many modern funerals are being celebrated as a life remembrance rather than a somber affair) then, of course, follow the dress code.

 

Where should I sit?

 

This is very important to know if this is the first time you are attending a funeral. Generally, the first and the second row is meant for the family members; so, if you aren’t one, don't sit on them. If you are arriving late after the funeral services started it is respectful to sit in back rows even when you are a family member.

 

What if I don’t belong to the same church/religion as the person whose funeral I am attending?

 

In today’s global world we have friends and acquaintances from all over the world belonging to other churches/religions than yours. So, when attending such a funeral always be respectful of their beliefs and rituals. You are not obligated to participate in any of them if you don’t want to. Just stand respectfully and pay your homage to the person who died.

 

Can I bring my Kid to the funeral?

 

Depending on how close you are to the family of the deceased person, you can bring your child to the funeral if he or she is old enough to understand the situation. This is why toddlers and infants should be left home with a babysitter even when you are close or even family member of the deceased person.

 

Should I silent my phone?

 

Yes, unless you are required to keep your phone on for some emergency reasons you should silent your smartphone when attending a funeral home in Kendall for a funeral service. If it is absolutely necessary to take the call or answer a message, please do it outside the service area. Similarly, don’t take photos of the funeral unless the family members allow you to.

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